Hi Mandy... I guess what I am trying to understand is why say *maybe*, but not follow through with it. My h says it too, he even says *maybe* we can have pizza/movie night... but never asks, even tho he is desperately lonely. Why would he even bother to say this? and all the stuff about "IF" we get back together, blah blah blah. And, the fact that he says he fears we would go back to our old ways. Why say all this stuff and not even give it a try?... can you understand this? (you said it too).
I do go out with friends as often as I can...
At 4/5 months was h "hopeful" for reconcilliation? you mentioned he was a mess, and I wonder how long he was like that? At 4/5 months were you still thinking of moving on without your h, or were you ever re-considering things with him... remember, you did say *maybe*
Tx Mandy... it means alot that you are willing to share. I feel for you that your ready for your M and h is now questioning things. You must be feeling awful, and here I am picking your head for my benefit. sorry
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
