Jrg, I hear you loud and clear. I think I am getting better but because I still think about her everyday I continue to rationalize hope.
Until the D is final, I will continue to hope and put in gods hands.
Jrg. If we are meant to be with our wives, we need to take this time as a gift and work on ourselves. Give them space and time, have patience as god is working on them as well.
If we are meant to be with them, god will place them back in our lives in the future. If we are not, well then. Because we worked on ourselves we will be much better men, husbands and fathers for the future!
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13