Advice please... S 16 has two big competitions coming up. Both out of town. H went to last one and I went to the one before that. I think it would be nice if we could both go to next- it's 3 hrs away and d could go. The 2nd race will be a plane ride. Big deal race. I asked h if we could both go and leave D with a sitter. I saw the panic in his face. I'm going to email and say it shouldn't be a big deal this is not about h and myself but to support s. However if he feels uncomfortable than I will stay with d and he can go. I'm not trying to manipulate or have expectations. Just think it's too bad for s that it has to b one parent or the other at his races.


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S20 at college),S17,D15-cp, dev. delay- cogniv 5yrs old
PA confirmed 7/2012
H separates 9/2012
H move home 2/13& 7/13 lasted 2weeks.ILYNILWY
OW still in picture. h filed 10/13