Its all mind blowing...really. in reading all in your posts i think your h started w u not giving him enough attention...i apologize if that wasn't u...my h said the same thing...that is where we started. I've asked him a few times although not recently was this all worth it??? U wanted more attention but destroyed everything to get it. How much more do they want from us? My h was abandoned by both parents as a child. I feel as i have somehow taken over that parent role just bc i tend to always take care of everyone. So...u have had no one stable your entire life yet u ruin your own stable environment?? Hard to wrap my head around. The furniture thing is just annoying. He too talks bout getting a new home together ...so..im just sitting thinking waiting. trying to figure out when i should walk away.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14