Originally Posted By: jaytee35
I just can't seem to get her out of my head with hope no matter what I do to GAL. She is on my mind constantly.

I too am trying to come to grips with the fact that it is her decision and I have to accept it and move on.


This is a common struggle. I deal with it every day too, every hour. I try to stay busy with things but still end up thinking about my wife.

I wish I could tell you how to help detach, but I can't figure it out either.


Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...