She needs time, she's told you that on many occasions. If you love her, let her have the time she needs.
You sound depressed. Do some things you don't want to do. Get outside everyday, exercise, meditate or pray, whatever you prefer. Volunteer somewhere, put the focus on others. Be happy that your employer likes you and wants to promote you.
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Odd thing is, at work they think I'm motivated and want to train me for mor responsibility...goes to show the state of our workforce these days.
Do you see how you turned a compliment into a negative? That thinking will get you nowhere fast.
I think you're becoming more the man she left rather than less.
Would you agree?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
