Divorced-not done-But wondering ?

[JJAC2005]

OK...2 more thoughts about making offers to reconnect.
I feel that my entire marriage was a prime example of the textbook mistakes people make on their way to a divorces...hence probably why I am divorced. My ex-wife seems to fit into the 2 categories of the WAW, and MLC.
Since we have been divorced she has been dating another guy, Im not sure just how serious it is but its serious enough or comfortable enough for her to move to the stage of introducing their kids to each others kids and spending nights together just over 6 months of me being out of the picture (her choice I know, but I feel its way to fast for the kids). I have for the most part tried to keep my distance, detaching (as much as I can), not be a pursuer, or to pressure her in any way. But some of my limited contact has been met by some angry replies, basically telling me that there is no chance she will ever give me a second chance and that she has moved on, and wants me to do the same.
That being said...I am once again here asking what are my options?
I am for the most part doing pretty well, my GAL is going on as planned, my health and fitness plan has me looking pretty good according to others, and I am getting quite a lot of offers to date if I would like to explore a few other options. However at this point, I'm almost feeling trapped in a state of limbo waiting for the fog to lift on my ex, for her to once again turn around and want to go grab a cup of coffee....or something!

Is there anything, besides waiting it out, GAL, doing work on me for me, doing my 180's, anything else that might be put out there to get a bite or a nibble?