I too know of a few men who shouldn't bother grilling. I was once very enthusiastic about learning, but found that men find the idea of me grilling even more threatening than the fact that I change my own oil. How to grill is a more closely guarded secret too.
Just talked to H. He said some women probably do grill out. Wow! I'm not so sure though, because that would be at least as well publicized as the first female Supreme Court Justice or first woman in space. --z