Work quite a bit next week, D 13 has dance show two nights, lunch on Tues. with a good friend of mine ( he is kind of in same sitch, but W is still at home and no OP). Into city Friday, Sunday is a small 10 k in the mountains race...so it is full!!
Discussing my sitch with a friend yesterday and was looking perplexed at H s outlook on future etc . She said it is because you are his brain and he misses that. I suppose, who really knows? I think it is simply talking to someone who gets you and knows you. There is a huge attraction to talking or being with someone who knows you inside out, whether you are in love or not.
Sometimes I think that WASs look for that everything new and wonderful feeling again, where they get to start again, and in my Hs case, be someone different.
I don't know when they realize, or if they realize, they are still who they are, no matter how desperate they are to project someone else.
Although, someone else may see him in a totally different way than I do, and his habit of giving in to me and then resenting it, may never come up with GF because she may hand decisions to him, or say " you choose". Instead of my controlling everything behaviour.
Interesting in my head this morning. Stupid meditation lol!
