Yep, fully agree with Cadet. My W has eliminated me from her life, probably the only way she can deal with the situation. I prefer to deal with the situation by learning to become a better person and changing myself for the better.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.