First Post--2d troubled marriage

[2X Divorcee?]

still doing the GAL stuff...scuba yesterday with a group and today kayaking and dinner out with a bigger group. Also asked a guitar instructor to give me a call...maybe it's time I got better with that dust collector in the corner of the room. Still hoping for a change with my stbxw. But the GAL does help to get my mind off that during the weekends.

My copy of "Uncoupling" should arrive tomorrow. Plan is to chat with W about it to find out if she is reading it too. Maybe I'll find out more about our sit by reading it and comparing notes with her. IC and DB couch agreed on this tactic to create something we are working on at the same time. I just need to keep a cool head.

Comms with W have been at zero lately....it's been about a week or 10 days since we last talked. Crazy to think I am just letting go and letting her make these decisions. But, in the end, that is what it boils down to anyway. So, why fret about it.