Main thing CB is that all through phase 2 of my W's mlc, though I knew about the online chat and webcamming, after initial discovery and confrontation before BD, I have said VERY little about it, done a lot of acting "as if" nothing was going on, etc. Even my suspicions about the PA, thankfully, somehow i kept my mouth shut and did not DO anything like shove the evidence panties and camisole in her face...I would not be looking at a growing re-connection and beginning reconcile process now if I did.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm