"Do I want to be with a woman who lies and cheats? Hell no. If anything, I stood too long in the face of her blatant disrespect for our M. I allowed her to manipulate me, to frustrate me, to hurt me. No more.

I'm no longer standing for my M....I'm standing for me."

This crystalizes my sentiments to a tee BD. how close we are. The last couple of days I have been diligently trying to secure a new home. I bought a house today....for me and my kids. I feel more liberated. It took a long time, and I am still wounded but I know who I am again. She is a lost soul.

Go get 'em big guy. You are strong.

M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.