Help! Patience is tough

[jaytee35]

So I have been out GAL and doing my best to detach. My wife is still extremely bitter. I went 27 days with no contact and then decided to contact just to see how she was doing. She immediately got bitter and basically told me she wants absolutely no contact with me whatsoever because she is upset with the divorce proceedings and what I am contesting.

I have decided to only contact her if absolutely necessary and use the 48 hour rule if she just so happens to contact me. I am starting to feel defeated. It has been 3 months of arguing and 2 months since the big D. I know everyone says this is a marathon but I just feel like I am getting absolutely no where with my techniques.

Is anyone else dealing with a bitter, stubborn, wife who is set on divorce! And eliminating you from thier life completely.
Miss her and just want so badly to contact her!

Please help!