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Snodderly, thanks for the reminder about the OW. Since I know her (and her H), it's hard for me not to want to call her or seek her out and give her a piece of my mind. I promise I won't do that because you are right, she will repeat every word and it will be the two of them against me and the world. It reminds me of my kids when they were in their teen years.

Thanks for the reminder on the finances. So far I'm still the one taking care of the bills. I do worry though about when he returns to work. I suspect that he'll open up a new checking account and funnel most of the money into it especially if he moves out and the OW is involved. She is high maintanance and wouldn't be working if she moves here. He was in a high paying job prior to leaving his last job and this new job will be an even higher paying job. What could be more dangerous as he progresses throught this. Lots of $$ with the behavior of a teenager?

Thanks for the words of encouragement. Your advice is welcome any time.