Also, been trying to get a counselor. I had no idea that the process was so slow. Five weeks now, and still no luck...between my insurance and what seems to be the worst 'production' backlog in the world, it seems like I'll never find one.
My wife has also been looking for a couples counselor for us...it's taking just as long. She finally got a list of 'in-network' counselors, and is waiting on insurance authorization. This feels promising to me...trying not to read too deeply. Seems like I find myself saying that a lot lately, I hope soon that I won't have to keep telling myself.