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[Notlikingthis]

Mtnman, Thanks for the encouraging words. I will look for your thread. I like the comment on not doing or saying anything that can be used to justify his actions. That's my mantra! I know that he is looking for things to justify his actions. Since he can't figure out why he's doing this in the first place he's blaming it on himself. I'm sure that he'd rather blame me. It would make it much easier for him to leave. So far, so good with that but I know it's just a matter of time before I look at him the wrong way and he will use that as the excuse. Maybe that's why he is being so "nice" right now.

While I can't imagine being in his frame of mind right now, I have to keep remembering that I don't have to understand the why's or how's. I have to stay focused on ME and be without emotion when I do have to deal with him.

You sound like you're doing pretty well for being here for such a short time. Keep your positive attitude.