Dawn...there are so many similarities in our sitch..my H on couch n my biggest fear is one day he will awake n be ready to be an active n present member of our family n i don't want it anymore. I too am a lone wolf . For me..the struggle is between moving and the amount of stuff involved n putting up w a man who is clearly checked out. I look around my home n think..do i want to move?? Then i feel disappointed that im sticking it out w someone who thinks of me as their mom and someone else as his partner. My H ow had pics all over fb of them out all over town for months n im home taking care of his laundry..his kids...cooking n cleaning...etc..its hard to swallow.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14
