NLT, snodderly gave you the best advice. Get out of his way. Don't help him, but don't say or do anything that can be used to justify his actions.

I'm in month four. I never thought I could be apart from my W this much for this long. It doesn't get easier, as much as you learn to live in a new normal. It can be done.

M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later