Admitting you are a manipulator IS hard. I have had to do it as well. What's harder, I think, is that we believe we have the best interests of the other at heart, and justify the manipulation. Maddening.

And it is HARD to break this habit. It's a communication style, IMO. I'm still trying to break it.

congratulations on at least realizing it smile


Me 46 W 43
S 21 D 18 S 17
M 22 yrs
Discovered OM 9/10/12
W moved to sister's 9/15/12
W moved to OM 9/27/12
Tried to DB until 7/13
W filed 10/7/13. Did not serve.
I counter filed 12/2/13.