Hi Labug. Thanks for chiming in. I see a lot of the childcare being shared jointly. H and I spoke briefly this morning and we both agreed that Disney may be a bit much for our young ones, we will look into Maui or a cruise instead.

There has been little discussion about his PA since he first admitted it. A few weeks ago H was in town for a show (he is a performance painter). He invited me to it but also shared that OW would be there. One of the paintings he dedicated to love and painted a picture of a couple kissing, and he performed it to our wedding song. The following day he called to thank me for coming, said it meant a lot and commented on our song.

What do you mean by becoming the WAW in my mind? What does this look like? I think I may have been this for 1.5 years prior to my H leaving but quickly saw my share of issues that contributed to our problems. Now I'm the one standing.

I'll look into Tallula's threads.


Me 33 / H 30
T 10 / M 9
S 3 / D Infant
Bomb 11.22.12 / Moved 11.29.12