My W gave me a variation on your BD talk. That she wants passion etc etc. My W got obsessed with the twighlight saga films a few months prior to BD. I did wonder if she had got into the whole forbidden love thing and wonder if it fuelled her fantasy.
I have given up thinking about it all now. None of it makes sense. There are some truths, hald truths and complete falsifications in what W said at BD so I have taken what I can from the speech and worked on it.
Glad to hear the TKD classes are getting going. Good luck with that.