Snodderly, cadet, mtn and kml have consulted an attorney.. her advice was to stay put in the house..
My counselor i believe thought that if i am not at home 'absence making the heart fonder' (on DB lines) may have an impact on him..
I have decided not to take a chance with this as this is exactly what he wants.. he has reiterated so many times there is no hope for us it makes it difficult for me to just get up and move.
Portia.. Really was in a hole yesterday.. feel overwhelmed and pressurized by all what he does and does not do..Thanks so much, i needed that.. Journaling.. Its sickening , never thought of myself as the doormat kind though wonder if this isn't then what is?? I have been miserable the last month beating up myself for all the things i could have done to avoid this situation.. Cried my heart out , finally have come to a point where i have been able to forgive myself and have questioned what has my H done to work on the relationship.. he just chose to bail out.. It baffles me and makes me wonder what is he going through to do this to S.. and then i wander again to OW , can these people really be happy after putting a child through this.. Ow comments on every FB update of mine ??????? Well there is no reason , no logic and i think no empathy in the MLC land .. only LOVE (gag) Have a great weekend !
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
