Bump. Advice please.

I'm conflicted. This invitation seems like a step in the right direction. My concerns:

1) I don't want to be treated like a nanny or get stuck in the friendly co-parent zone.
2) Will absence make the heart grow fonder?
3) He hasn't seen much of me to see my 180s. This may be a good opportunity.
4) Is he cake-eating having the OW and me?
5) Who cares about all of the above, its a vacation for our kids.


Me 33 / H 30
T 10 / M 9
S 3 / D Infant
Bomb 11.22.12 / Moved 11.29.12