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hahaha your such a hoot ruby, we need to hang out lol.imma smart alleck as well, we need to trade babrs, hehe


You can not change your past, but you can ruin a perfectly good present by worrying about the future.
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Yup, is totally my downfall in the new improved Ruby...sigh.
We will hang one day. If not Boston, somewhere else!!

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ruby,

I too enjoyed the humor in your posts today. Boy, do I miss laughter in my life. In fact so much that I have it high on my priority list to find, create, or join in some type of laughter regularly (can't commit to daily as I've barely laughed at all in the past year).

I loved the cookies comment! smile


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BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.
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I loved the cookie comment too Ruby! lol

Glad the text response didn't bother you. good for you.


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Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home
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Email today. Sent H a link to lily Allen's song f*^k you, which always is a great song to play when you're down lol!

He replied thanks, etc. we chatted, he is off hiking tomorrow with GF to a place where we have been a lot over the past twenty years.

I said, have a beer at favourite place. He basically said they would stop at a place we only went to once. I said good. Lol. That it sounded a little silly, but I think of it as ours ( our family). He could have gone it is his very favourite or another place where we would often go, but he chose not to and picked a place "we" never went, except the once a long time ago.

Yay, H! Sometimes I see glimpses of a real person and it gives me hope for him. smile
Not necessarily us, but convo took the turn to a cruise. He said he wanted to go on one. I said " hell ya, but that's not an invite is it." He said we would go in 24 months max. If we were both single. Then mentioned he wanted to go this fall but single was too expensive. You really needed a room mate. Wtf? Dude, you have a GF.

I didn't say anything, just agreed. Later he texted to say he was very serious about cruise. Good thing my feet are on the ground these days. Whereas before I would be all a twitter now I am more in one ear.out the other.

GF only been back a few days and already you say you are in for road trip when she leaves again? Oy vey.
Hope hiking at our place is a little bittersweet. Hope he is reminded of all the fun :p

Date is canceled tomorrow frown. My guy has to work overtime due to the Boston fallout. Everything is on high alert. Maybe Sunday. Will let you all know how dipping the toes goes wink

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Glad you are doing so well and are able to take these exchanges a little lighter now.

You are strong in that you are able to talk to him about what he is doing with GF.

Good luck with the date!


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Well, I don't bring it up often, but it's a little silly to ignore the elephant in the room lol.

He says he wants to take his relationship seriously but then looks at the future as if he will be by himself...

Weird little man.

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He also mentioned that he wanted to be sure I knew he didn't have any "ideas". Code, i think for " this is not a bid to get back together". Lol.

No. Really?

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Your H is so confused, Busting. And I admire you for being so strong. I would've never been able to talk to my H about his outing w a GF.

It'll be so awesome to meet you! :-)

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Meh...thanks though Tori. I am just waiting to see where he is going with his life. Not waiting per se, I have my own life while he figures out his.

Besides I am not that wonderful, lol. I forbade H to go to the places at hiking place that are mine in that town :p. he said ummm no. So we agreed he could get take out, but not eat or drink in lmfao!!

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