OK, first things first, I can't remember how readily available the book "Divorce Remedy" is, in Aus. You should be able to order it on Amazon. Definitely get a copy and read it, as it is really the basis of how we support each other on this forum, of course.
Hey Kaffe,
Thanks for taking the time out to post such a long response. I will definitely take notice of what you have posted and follow through.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
As far as journaling, yes. Just keep posting in this thread, as Cadet said, up to 100 (total; incl. responses) posts in the thread, then start a new thread. Even if it's just thoughts from the day. It can be very helpful to let stuff out.
I have never been very good at journal writing but i suppose that now is as good as any time to begin. In fact, as you have alluded to, it will probably be a good tool for me to get my thoughts out etc. It seems very strange letting it all hang out on the internet for a bunch of total strangers to read. I suppose that i feel safe doing so because of the thin layer of anonimity afforded me.
Originally Posted By: Kaffe Diem
At the top of this forum (newcomers) on this board, there is a thread called "Sandi's rules". Read them and stick to them as best you can.
Sandi's rules...i think that reading that will be high on my to-do list.
I will leave off addressing the questions and other issues that you have raised for another post. Thank you for them nonetheless.
Me: 49 W: 47 M: 19 T: 25 Son:19 Dau:13 Son:6 BD: Aug: 2012 Separated - same house: May, 2013 Ultimatum to move out: Dec 2013 W looking to move out: January 2014 Dau says go, I move out: June 2014