Hi FY, sorry sometimes I am sure I get a notification about a post and then later when I come back to read them there are more than I saw first time around. So I completely missed your comments yesterday.
Looks like our W are similar in that this could have been triggered by death of a parent.
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I told my wife I understood she was going through a difficult time, and that I would stay out of her way and work on being the best H I could be. I made this last comment ONCE, (remember: actions not words) when she accused me early in the sitch of "not doing anything"... meaning, moving ahead with the D process.
I will consider saying this at some point. I know the response will be 'what's the point we are getting a D, you don't need to be the best H' So maybe a rewording in is order for me.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.