Basically I have just tried to be there for her. I make sure to ask her how her day went. I listen and acknowledge without providing advice or direction.
I have also suggested doing family things like trips every once in a while, but she has always refused to want to do anything.
I also make sure that things are as stress free as possible around the house by helping out as much as she needs. For the last three years I have been very consistent in my approach and demeanor.
She really trys hard to make sure that we don't do anything together unless absolutely necessary. Its like she doesn't want to things to improve. She just wants to keep being unhappy.
When I have asked her about our relationship, she simply says that she can't go back. That it has been to long since she has had any feelings for me.
