Hi Luke, things are neither here not there recently. H has shown some positive signs, being more affectionate, seeking me out if i hide in my room all day BUT there is also some other things that really needs to be worked on.
H seems to think its his duty to critique me on everything I do when I am cooking or doing household chores. Its not in a nice way either, its very condescending and mean. I told him today that if he doesnt like how i perform my duties that he is free to do them on his own.
I need to find a way to draw bounderies between us when he starts to get like that, its too hard on me to work a full time job, do all the housekeeping and try to keep him happy.
Ive suggested to him this morning before work that we try to work out a room mate agreement of some sort because its unfair of me to be performing wifely duties for him while he is treating me like a doormat. I will talk to him about it more when i get home.
