Letting Go & Moving Forward

[littleGTO]

Okay, thanks, ruby. You are right. My organized/logical side will feel better about knowing where I could potentially be.

My biggest anxiety is that H will change his mind about letting boys live only with me during the week (one home). I know I'll either have to split every weekend or do the every other weekend thing (which sux but I know before even meeting w a lawyer that this is the reality of the kids).

My second biggest anxiety is will I be able to keep the house? It has been said that if H is agreeable that I could potentially keep the house & not pay him a dime until youngest son is 18. Our house will be paid off (except for an equitity loan) as of next January, so we are/were in a good financial sitch regarding that.

I want the boys to be able to live in the house that they've grown up in (at least for now). I realize and expect that when/if I enter into a new R that I probably will want to have a "fresh start" in a new home later down the line, but who knows, maybe the boys will be grown by then. Who knows.