oh... one more thing. At 4/5 months, where were you in your journey, your thoughts, actions... and what about h? was he still doing things that put you off? did he do stupid stuff like try to r talk or try to pursue or worse?
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)