WOW... I would love to know how to get to that point. I really need my h to see what he would "miss" in a life without me. But, super hard to do... we co-own a business together. See/talk about business alot. And, in all honesty my h needs to appreciate what he has with me too. Everyone says its his loss because I am a catch. Even his friends say this to me too. They don't understand what it is he is wanting. (realizing that he couldn't get better than me).
I don't believe my h is interested in other women, at this time. But, he is concerened about appearances of others, himself and me too (as of today... see my post). Health & Death too (fears only 20 good years left.. he is 49)
He always says *maybe* to me too. Tonight he is home alone. Pizza and beer. Why would he rather do that alone when he could be with me? He said he missed doing that stuff with me. WTF? What's so wrong with "trying" with me? He just started texting with my d...i know he is lonely. grrrrrr.
What would you suggest I start doing/trying?
Any/all your comments are sooo much appreciated. I would love to share some wine with you & get in your head...LOL (what part of Canada are you in?)
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
