I haven’t been posting for some time, but I’ve reading the board every day in hopes to find the answers I’m desperately looking for, how to behave when he brings the D subject again.

He called me yesterday from, first are the house, and when I didn’t pick up, he called me on my cell. I let it go to the voice mail. He left me a message saying that he wanted to discuss a couple of things and let me know that he used the debit card for our joint account to pay for something. He asked me to call him back. He sounded in a good mood. So, I checked the cell phone records and saw that he is probably looking for a new auto insurance. It means he actually started to act to separate our joint accounts, memberships, etc. I felt like stomach turned upside down again. I still have not called. I’m having a cold and my voice is very scratchy. I didn’t want to have a conversation like that. I’m pretty sure he wants to discuss how separate our insurance and other stuff.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state