Well this weekend I plan to keep busy with some house things...paint one of the bedrooms, clean up, wash my car. I enjoy this kind of work as it makes me feel productive.

I do need to think of short term goals. I'm just not sure what they should focus on.

I am however looking to join some sort of club to meet new people. Something like a mountain biking club or caving club.

I find myself desperate for female interaction. I don't have any female friends or acquaintances that I can hang out with or talk with...not even at my job.

Me:38, Wife:36
M:8
T:13
No kids
Bomb:3/10/13
W moved out:3/30/13
Started D paperwork: 10/14/13
D final: 12/30/13
To a future of love and happiness...