Well, Cadet, that last question is the one that is probably burning in everyone's mind...
As to WAW_sc... I think it can cause resentments. It seems like some get angry that it took them leaving or threatening a divorce to get any changes at all.
Speaking for myself, I have to admit that sometimes it gets hard when I look at your life and realize it is not where I thought it would be. It was never a question of loving my , it was the way I dealt with my anger and disappointments. I am working hard on that.
Whether or not W will ever see it is not for me to worry about right now.
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best out of the way things turn out” ― Art Linkletter