Quote: My H has always had a bad habit of not telling me what was going on until he was ready to do it. For my part, I always left my schedule open in anticipation of such a thing.
My ex-b is a LOT like that. He doesn't like to plan at all, I like to have a tiny bit of notice. Even last night - he was going to go to shoot pool with a friend, but the friend had work to do. I told ex-b that I'd love to play if he was up for it (he sounded very tired, though). I didn't hear from him for 2 hours, and I bummed around for that time instead of working - holding my schedule open. I finally called him, and he thought that he was supposed to let me know only if we WERE doing it.
Grrrr.
I will hold days open sometimes, and I am trying not to do that.
It sounds like things are going well for you, though. I won't tend to cut out of a movie I'm watching with ex-b to do other things, except maybe for cooking (and he will always stop the movie).
