Hi Z,
I wish I knew what to say to help you, but I'm clueless.

But I couldn't pass through without at least making a post and saying hello.

Hey? You interested in coming to the beach again? Hmmm?????? It would be great to see you again.

Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!