Yes, though being a healthy adult, I should work for my food and shelter.
Okay, I should have asked it differently. What would your children deserve if they were adults? If they were not healthy and was not able to work, what would they deserve? If they were disabled, homeless & jobless, what would they deserve?
You are looking at one's worth as if being paid for what they do. But when your children are grown, and if they don't have the future they "worked" for, then how will you feel? B/c you are right, the world doesn't owe us a dime! Life is very unfair. So does it take away a person's worth? What happens when you grow too old to work? Depend upon your savings? That still puts it in the "reward" category. Sure, every kid deserves a fair chance at life......but every kid doesn't get it. Does that lessen their worth? And if the kid grows up, does it lessen his worth as a human being?
Your worth does not depend upon the fact that you are able to work for your food and shelter. When you figure that out, maybe you will be able to wipe the fog off the mirror and see yourself. Once you do, hopefully, things will start improving.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
