The Bomb was dropped on me almost 3.5 years ago but we are still together even though she was involved with OM for part of this timeframe.
Wow, 3.5 years? What have you been doing with this time? Why has nothing changed?
Originally Posted By: punchy
Any thoughts from folks as to whether I just let this pass, or do I need to question her on why and what her plans maybe going forward. She has not made any direct statement as to whether she is planning to stay or leave.
Are you ok with it? If you are, then let it go....if not, then it's time for a discussion.
Originally Posted By: punchy
It seems to me that if she does not want to include me in these events then there is really no more hope in trying to address the stalemate in our marriage. Maybe its time to move on.
It's difficult to say without knowing the whole story. Why do you think she's excluding you? Have you asked her about the other events?
What about you....what work have you done in the last 3.5 years? Have you addressed her complaints? Have you addressed your own issues? Have you become the man "only a fool would leave?"
