Just wondering if you are keeping up the "new" things you started post bomb, and if your "changes" have fallen back any to pre-bomb form ???
Are you letting her find her way through the house ???
Giving her plenty of time to adapt ?
Asking her to join your "new" GAL things ?
Letting her include you on her GAL ?
Doing other GAL for yourself ???
When this gets you down, remember that this is what you fought for.
And I know that you are aware of that, however, it is SO easy to forget...
Stay on your course buddy....
Originally Posted By: Crimson
my stance has been that no one was hurt more through all of this that me and XW...no one. And if we can see the good in being together and learn to forgive and understand she should be able to as well.
