Good advice snodderly, say, et. al.

In similar situation, W wants "space" and wants me to leave. Says she cannot get house on her own and it will be "easier" for all involved if I am the one to go. She feels that because she has been SAHM for past 14 years it's only fair that she "....get to keep the home she made."

Even given this, I still think if she is the one who wants to leave the M she should be the one to go. I am concerned about what would happen if she files though.

Additional thoughts or comments anyone?


Me-48,W-51
M-22,T-24
S- 18,16,9
Feb-Jul '11 Away from Home, after initial B date
Aug-Dec '11 Back at Home on couch
Dec '11-now Same bedroom, room mates only
Dec '14 W files initial D paperwork