Sandi, Not sure what you mean by stick to one thread?? Please explain because I would like to get the best responses possible.
She means you're not supposed to create a new thread every time you have a question, you're supposed to keep all your questions in one thread. You're not supposed to start a new thread until your old one reaches 100 posts. Then you create a new thread and post a link to the old one. The reason for sticking to one thread is it's a lot easier for us to read through your entire sitch so that we can give a more accurate response. Plus we can see what others have already suggested to you. It's hard to answer questions like this one if we don't know the background, and it's way too much work to try and go through multiple threads for that info. So pick a thread and stick with it
Regarding your question, when it gets into the D process the general advice here is not to fight the D just for the sake of holding the process up because that's not going to save the M and prevent D. If you feel the terms of the D are unfair or that you or your children are not properly protected then by all means contest it.
