That does bring up a question I have been wondering about. I am still hopeful that I am not near this point, but if W does decide she wants out, I think she should leave the house. She is the MLC, after all, but I know she would look at it the other way that I should. Is there a suggestion on this? Again, hoping I don't have to use it.

Part of me thinks that it would be better to stay under one roof, it might given more of an opportunity to change her mind, but I have no experience in this.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"