Ok thanks, good advice. I need to sit and have the finance talk with her anyway - we had one when she wanted to shortly after BD and since she has not really been interested. We have some debt to plough through so I think she is wanting to forget about that part as its not ideal for her plans.
Its not gone unnoticed that things are migrating to her room on a daily basis!
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
