Another issue I'm having is that I don't fully trust W with the kids. Generally she's a good mom, but she is very much under the influence of OM who is very volatile and a strange person. For one thing he's almost 30 years older than her. He's got a lot of money too and they're always flying from place to place. When the kids are with her on weekends and whatnot, who knows what she will be doing with them. It will be tough not to worry about them.