I've not managed to yet. I need to work on that. My W is only 35! So I have no idea what is going on there, so on one hand I want to say don't be so stupid, but on the other who knows - she may be right. Its not an easy on to answer to, because its not like any of us know. At first I thought it was just a bluff to make me feel better about why she is doing it. but of all the things she said this is the one I look into her eyes and see pure panic about.
I guess the best way is the generic " I can understand why you could feel that way"
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.
