Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

I guess OM broke up with his girlfriend. There is this masquerade ball thing tonight, W doesn't want me to go with her, I know OM will be there. I know W has been lying to me a lot recently I don't trust anything she says anymore. I saw a text from OM today that said I love having sex with you and other some other stuff. A PA is a deal breaker for me so I guess all I can do now is make it through this the best I can and continue to work on myself for any future R. I'm sure I don't have to tell any of you that have been in a similar situation how difficult it is. I still don't know if there was anything i did to cause this. W did tell me a few days ago that she had miss the cute texts I sent to her before we were married. I don't understand why she would want me to send her a text when I'm sitting right next to her and still verbally said things to her. I guess it's still possible for me to change my mind about the M but I don't know if that will happen.