The boards are certainly not like Jerry Springer - they are real life, real emotions. They could be considered real-life soap operas though. Just tell him it's like a support group, which is exactly what it IS.
I'm grateful for it.
As far as sex - most of the problems come from the mind, but if there are physical problems, the doctor could help. So perhaps could a bottle of K-Y warming (which sounds great, I've never tried it). Plus - I am not really sure how you do have sex without foreplay. I mean, there are occasions where one is just ready from the word "go", but most women need to be warmed up. Sex isn't just intercourse and orgasms, but the whole experience. And it can take a woman a while to get ready (I don't usually take long, and I still do need at least some foreplay). Foreplay can just be sitting and kissing for an hour. Whatever is going to get you ready - and your H needs to learn to do * whatever it takes * for you.
If he does that for you, it will be a better experience for him.
There are also mechanical ways of doing things (from the toy store, if you know what I mean). I know it isn't the same, and I don't really do that - but maybe it will help you get in the mood. I don't know.
