Thanks Semper and rH.

We've always had separate accounts. Our agreement was that the mortgage came out of hers and everything else came out of mine. She was left with a nice chunk of change to do with as she wished. I never asked what she did with it because it was easy to see. Literally!

I will respond. I can't leave that hanging out there. rH, I was trying to draft something but kept second guessing myself. Thanks got your help. I'm sure she'll be up for supper and a movie later today. I'll let everyone know how it goes with my response.


M - 42
W- 37
S's - 9,6
M-12
T-14
FIL- diagnosed with fatal disease spring 2011
ILYBNILWY - march '12
FIL - died jan '13
W Moved out week later