Just read two great MWD quotes on T:

"Assume the best about our spouse's behavior and instead of ascribing negative motivation when s/he is unkind. Maybe s/he is having a bad day."

and

"When you aren't making progress in your relationship, don't worry. Sometimes the best thing you can do is NOT make things worse."

I need to remember both of these, especially the second one.

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"